06-06-2017, 02:52 AM
idk, I think her main thing is not understanding it and being cis I'm probably not the best person to explain why some people don't identify w their biological gender
she'd probably dismiss it and be like "whatever I'm old" but maybe not when she realizes that it's like, closer to home you know? idk. I'm hoping my dad will be better but he might be the same or worse irdk
I know I wouldn't get kicked out for being pan or anything, like it's safe for me to come out... rlly it's just judgement and disapproval I'm worried about even tho I grew up hearing that I could love whoever I wanted as long as they loved me back and I didn't need to decide whether I'm straight or not til I'm old enough to date
some things have. made them bitter ig and I can see why but they let a few assholes (in their generation and older, I might add) speak for everyone in this community
I've been kinda writing a script for my "opening statement" in my head. I wanna say I'm pan but I'll probably at some point end up saying something along the lines of "if it's easier to process just think of me as bi" idk.
she'd probably dismiss it and be like "whatever I'm old" but maybe not when she realizes that it's like, closer to home you know? idk. I'm hoping my dad will be better but he might be the same or worse irdk
I know I wouldn't get kicked out for being pan or anything, like it's safe for me to come out... rlly it's just judgement and disapproval I'm worried about even tho I grew up hearing that I could love whoever I wanted as long as they loved me back and I didn't need to decide whether I'm straight or not til I'm old enough to date
some things have. made them bitter ig and I can see why but they let a few assholes (in their generation and older, I might add) speak for everyone in this community
I've been kinda writing a script for my "opening statement" in my head. I wanna say I'm pan but I'll probably at some point end up saying something along the lines of "if it's easier to process just think of me as bi" idk.
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